Community of Kindred Spirits

April 13, 1009

I have heard and been in many conversations in the last six months about "these economic times." Meetings with conference organizers concerned about attendance. Colleagues with whom I am hosting events and trainings. There is a strong thread about how meeting together is a luxury, as if it is something we will do again when "these times" pass.

I know the thread well. Yet I also know the need, even more, not to get trapped in the energy of collapse.

I love what Meg Wheatley has written below. It came in an email this morning naming two weeklong semiars she will be hosting during the summer. I love the clarity of description and invitation to support each other in community.

"There has never been a greater need for us to be together --reflecting, learning, supporting each other-- as we learn how to sustain our good work in the midst of so much fear and groundlessness. This summer I am offering two seminars that speak directly to the needs of those of us who want to serve others from a place of clarity, peace and sanity. Because this is such a difficult time to be a good leader, each of these seminars will delve deeply into the skills, capacities and perspectives that give us the ability to act well and persevere over the long term.

Even though you may feel you have neither the time nor the money to attend a seminar, I hope you will seriously consider attending. I believe that you will return to your work feeling more focused and confident about how best to serve at this time. And after five days of being in the company of other good and dedicated leaders, you will also feel refreshed, enthusiastic and ready for the challenges ahead. I know this to be true from past experiences and now, more than at any other time, we need to experience the inspiration, imagination and dedication that always blossoms in a community of kindred spirits."

Open Heart

About six months ago I found myself very much in a need to simplify. Work was requireing much of me, my time, in a way that didn't feel right enough. A key relationship was really charged. I wanted so much to dive deeper into readings and learnings on energy. I was struggling to find enough of myself in my spiritual community. I was overcooked and in need of insight that was simple enough for me to hold. It came, in the form of three commitments that applied to each of these areas:

1. Be open in heart.
2. Be couragous in story.
3. Be clear in intent.

This open-heartedness is very alive for me this week. And as I think of it now, I recall several times where people have helped me to learn more of this.

There was the September Art of Hosting in Indiana at which one of the open space breakout groups harvested this: "an open heart is a safe space."

There was the November Art of Hositng in Pennsylvania at which the theme for the first day was open heartedness.

There were these recent words from Meg Wheatley and a group of friends, soul friends at I know Berkana Institute:

• we are companions for the journey as the world insists that our hearts crack open, not to break, but to grow
• broken-heartedness leads us out into the world where we can stand with people and offer our love
• in the end, all that matters is people standing together in the fullness of being human

These threads have lead me to something that feels important today...

• What would be different if we assumed that world does insist that our hearts crack open so that we can offer our love and stand together in the fullness of being human?
• Sometimes I don't see because my heart isn't open.
• Can we create and practice tools for opening our hearts?
• From this love, all becomes different, whole, healthy. Our work becomes our human being.

I'm thinking of this framing, feeling it, as I move into new client relations, designs of meetings, hosting of phone calls. I'm also thinking of it at home. This changes how I show up, what I invite, what I hope to create with others. It doesn't remove me / us from "work." It grounds us more deeply to animate and ground our "work."